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Re: “Winner Takes All: Should Vermont's Family Courts Be Allowed to Order Shared Custody of Kids?

This is what a child sees:

Dad dones't spend time with me. I only see him on holidays, and a few weekends a month. I'm with mom all the time and Mom helps me with my homework, and we get to watch that TV show I like once a week, and play a game after dinner every night before bed.

I guess dad doesn't want to do those things with me. Why?

Dad's house is so small/old/far from my school. Why did dad chose to live there? why don't I get to have my own room? why is it so cold? Doesn't dad know its cold, and it be nicer if it was warmer in the house?

Mom really went all out and got us a big house, I have my own bedroom with my my sister and I have a bathroom just for us. Mom got me a dog, and a cat, and we have a pool.

Dad has been driving the same car with the rust for years, mom gets a new car every 3 years.

Why would i want to be with dad? he doesn't seem to care about us as much.

Posted by captaintz on 12/13/2017 at 10:59 AM

Re: “Winner Takes All: Should Vermont's Family Courts Be Allowed to Order Shared Custody of Kids?

I would never use Neal Rodar as a mediator! wow, your supposed to be unbiased I thought. guess I was wrong.

It should be a minimal of 40%, if they won't do 50/50, it needs at least a minimum standard amount of time with the "NCP". here's why!

Parents that have their children significantly more, should get some help from the other parent, but not at the expense of that parent having to live in poverty. As a parent with one income paying out 40% his net pay, I can't support my children when they are with me in nearly the same way the other parent can. Unless you make a very large salary, over 75K, or get remarried and live with someone and share expenses, you won't be able to survive and provide for your children the same way the primary parent can, or even closet, assuming a similar salary (in my case, its much more). Some of the largest expenses of having children is a home, and those related expenses. A single guy could live in an efficiency. But when you have a boy and a girl, you need at least a 2 bedroom if you sleep on the couch. Have you Seen the price of a 2 bedroom in Williston these days? its impossible for a single person, earning less than 50K a year. Housing in VT is very expensive right now. So, what I'm getting at, is that by giving one parent all the time, the majority of the money, the other parent is then cast into a far different economic status, and light in the eyes of his children-

Posted by captaintz on 12/13/2017 at 10:58 AM

Re: “Fake Leahy Comment to FCC Decries Net Neutrality

Well said, @Adam.

Posted by Oleander on 12/13/2017 at 10:20 AM

Re: “Burlington Teachers and School Board Still Finalizing Contract

Quid pro quo: Pay the teachers for the four days they were on strike and have the union reimburse any costs submitted by parents, subcontractors and other related parties incurred because of the strike.

The school board will have the final decision as to what costs qualify for reimbursement, including the costs incurred by the board for the administration of those reimbursements.

Of course, it's possible, the costs of such an unanticipated circumstance might well be in excess of the teacher's salaries for those four days. But hey, what's good for goose......

Posted by Jay Eshelman on 12/13/2017 at 9:21 AM

Re: “Walters: Top Vermont GOP Official Backs Roy Moore

And it is high time we hold Predator-In-Chief Trump to the same standard...he need to go as well!
It's a shame Clinton didn't properly pay for his own misdeeds, he surely wouldn't get away with it today.

Posted by Susan C. Anderson on 12/13/2017 at 9:14 AM

Re: “Walters: Top Vermont GOP Official Backs Roy Moore

Butterfield is an embarrassment to any decent VT Republican and NEEDS TO GO!!!!
VT "patriot" is just plain delusional!!

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Posted by Susan C. Anderson on 12/13/2017 at 9:09 AM

Re: “Walters: Top Vermont GOP Official Backs Roy Moore

As someone who was sexually assaulted when I was a child, it isnt that damned easy to say anything about it, ever, much less at the time. People who think that it is fake because it was not brought out 40 years ago in my opinion, are not hearing what the women are saying. I admit that I do not know word for word what they all said, but I do know what the first woman said and it has a deadly ring of truth to my ears. And one example of sexual misconduct with a 14 year old really should be enough to bring about questioning of a 32 year olds morals, motives and fitness for a position of authority. In America we like to-lets call it, look on the bright side, but a lot of bad stuff happens, and it doesnt go away because we dont look. America can only be as great as our behavior in our darkest moments.

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Posted by Cyndy Hutchins on 12/13/2017 at 8:25 AM

Re: “Bitter on Twitter: Vermont Democratic Party Flames GOP

At times I have been the focus of this twitter handle's ire...I was always just pleased to see they had a sense of humor.

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Posted by Job Tate on 12/13/2017 at 7:30 AM

Re: “Despite Activist Outcry, Panel Passes Updated Impartial Policing Policy

Vermont used to have a spine. This is a clear capitulation to the fear-mongering, paranoia and anti-immigrant rhetoric and policies emanating from the Swamp at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave.

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Posted by Christopher Hill on 12/13/2017 at 7:16 AM

Re: “Walters: Top Vermont GOP Official Backs Roy Moore

Perhaps the best news tonight is that Doug Jones beat the sex predator, and this idiot's support for Moore will go the way of the dodo. People have stood up to support the women who had the courage to come out and speak truth to power. How one can reasonably expect women to make these allegations about a man who was first a DA, then a judge and then chef justice of the state supreme court, is absolutely beyond me. Maybe the Republican party here will do the right thing and dump her. However their track record with Toensing doesn't hold out much hope.

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Posted by Barbara Alsop on 12/13/2017 at 1:56 AM

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