Published August 11, 2020 at 10:00 a.m.
In a society filled with racial tension and violent images, it's so important that we talk honestly with our kids to help them understand the complex world in which they're growing up.
And yet, as parents, it's often difficult to know how to start conversations with our kids about topics such as racism and the fight for civil rights.
We all worry about how our words will be heard and perceived by others. Add in a dose of adolescent self-consciousness, and race becomes an easy subject to avoid around the dinner table. But, as parents, we have an obligation to expose our kids to ideas and history, even if it's hard, so that they can build their own understanding and help create a more tolerant world.
But where do we start?
Cue the music.
From Billie Holiday to Kendrick Lamar, countless artists have used music as a way to understand history, demand accountability and present a path forward.
During my 12 years of teaching English at Burlington High School, I often relied on music as an entry point to challenging conversations. Listening to music often made it easier for my students, who came from a wonderfully diverse range of backgrounds, to open up, say what they thought and, most importantly, share their own stories and experiences.
I later created a class called "Hip-Hop and Social Justice." I was consistently amazed by the way music helped kids process the complex role that race plays in our lives.
Below, find a selection of music that parents can use as a springboard for discussion. So much depends on the age of your children and your family's past experiences, but the hope is that these songs can inspire meaningful connection and dialogue.
If you have middle or high schoolers, chances are they're ready to dig into the deeper, more complex conversations these songs may inspire. For songs with explicit lyrics, do what feels right for your family; however, try not to make them an automatic barrier to discussion. Teens are often exposed to and can handle more than we realize. (* = explicit lyrics)
This list only scratches the surface. Start looking, and you'll discover a wealth of inspiring music that responds to racism and the struggle for civil rights. Ask your kids what kind of music they like. Ask what inspires them. Then listen and learn together.
This article was originally published in Seven Days' monthly parenting magazine, Kids VT.
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