Patricia
Quinn di Stefano — better known as Pappy to family and friends —
left this world on May 22, 2024, after a long struggle with several
illnesses. With her typical upbeat determination and spirit, she
lived 3-plus years longer than doctors predicted. She made the very
most of those final years and inspired all who journeyed with her
through this period of her life.
Born
on September 17, 1949, in Tempe, Ariz., to Bill and Margie Quinn, she
grew up with her siblings, Pete, Mike, Peggy and Janet. She graduated
from Paterson State College in 1971. While in high school, she met
the love of her life, Marc di Stefano. They married in Vermont in
1972 and built a beautiful log home on a hill in Cabot. Pappy worked
as a nurse’s assistant and physical education teacher until they
created a Christmas tree farm and nursery, which they maintained for
many years. She also served on several town committees and was town
clerk for a while. Together she and Marc created an active,
fulfilling life in Vermont and had two beautiful sons, Chris and Joe,
who grew up in Cabot. Marc passed away in 1990. Though Chris and Joey
both lived in other states for a while, they returned to Vermont and
were fortunate to spend many years close to Pappy. In the years prior
to retirement, she worked at National Life Group in Montpelier.
Pappy
was a woman of many talents: She was a skilled gardener, avid reader,
scuba diver, golf and tennis player, knitter, craftswoman, and,
especially, an amazing cook. Family and friends will remember many
delicious, joyous meals at her table, filled with laughter and love.
Pappy loved nothing more than simply spending time with her family —
sons; daughter-in-law Wendy; grandchildren Marc, Althea and Nina; and
her siblings. She was a devoted and loyal friend to many, quite a few
of whom became part of her and her sons’ extended family.
Though
she loved discovering new places to vacation and traveling to Jamaica
and Florida, relaxing on their beautiful beaches, she treasured her
land, birds and wildlife in Cabot more than any other place. The log
house and land will remain with the family.
Pappy’s
strong character, wonderful sense of humor, kindness and generosity
will carry on in her sons and grandchildren, and she will remain
vivid in the hearts of so many who loved her dearly.
A
celebration of life is planned for August 24, 2024, 2 p.m., at the
family home in Cabot. In the meantime, if you are able, plant a tree
or make a donation to cancer research in her memory. Please visit
awrfh.com to share your memories and condolences.
This article appears in The Cartoon Issue 2024.