
“It was always more fun when we did it together anyway.” — Mr. Fox
An inspired creator of fun and bright light to everyone who knew him, Jim was an artist from a young age who spent his childhood drawing and making things. He attended Bishop Hendricken High School in Warwick, R.I., in order to play hockey, but loved creating art and design for the school yearbooks.
Jim studied at Rhode Island School of Design during summer sessions as a high school student and played on the RISD hockey team (Go Nads) for two years, while there as a painting major. Jim finished his undergraduate degree at Hampshire College, where he met his wife, Karyn, in a campus softball game. He made her an eclectic mix tape he called Birds and Poets, his beautiful handwriting meticulously listing the tracks, including ambitious selections for a new friend, like “When Will We Be Married” by the Waterboys. When Karyn went away to British Columbia for the summer, Jim wrote her a gorgeous letter every day. They were married for 32 years.
Jim was a voracious reader and loved libraries. At Hampshire, he relished his low-stress work-study job at the college library. There he found time to read, do the NYT crossword and listen to albums on the third floor. Jim was a lover of many genres of music, especially that which was off the beaten path, and his life with Karyn always had a soundtrack.
After graduating from Hampshire, Jim and Karyn moved to San Francisco. Jim was a lifelong cyclist, from BMX racing as a boy to road cycling as an adult. While living in San Francisco in the ’90s, he was thrilled to be part of the Anchor Steam cycling team, riding across the Golden Gate Bridge to Marin on the weekends. He loved films and not only excelled at remembering movie lines, but also had a gift for working them into almost any conversation you had with him. He starred in Bay Area friends’ student films, including The Pugilist and This Fucking Apartment.
In the late ’90s, after the birth of their daughter, Karyn and Jim moved to Essex, Vt., where they found the rustic log cabin that would become their home, Jim saying to Karyn, “This is it” as they drove up the driveway for the first time.
Jim was the best dad, and was the household’s full-time parent for the first five years. The kids spent their days navigating obstacle courses, creating art, building things, hiking, taking trips to the library and town pool, eating peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, listening to music, and reading books, frequently joined by young cousins and friends. He was happily the only guy in a moms’ group during these years, an example of how a man can choose to show up for the everyday needs of his family with love. One of Jim’s proudest moments was when a woman downtown remarked at his ability to deftly change his baby’s diaper while keeping his toddler entertained.
Jim was also a caring dad to the family’s dogs, chickens, sheep and goats, picking up loads of hay each weekend in the old Volvo wagon. Their home on 10 acres gave rise to a vibrant series of annual events, including Ten Acre Egg Hunts, the Rides of March sledding parties, pie parties, Halloween haunted forests, solstice gatherings, wiffle ball tournaments, epic luge runs and more. Jim was a passionate winter luge builder and racer, known for start hills with ladder steps and a relentless pursuit of the perfect banked turn. An extreme amount of snow shoveling was required to both build the luge and keep the long driveway navigable, which he happily did.
Passionate about furniture design and fine woodworking, Jim worked as a builder and cabinetmaker for most of his life, while continuing to make drawings, paintings and woodcuts. Jim was a great person to visit a museum or see a film with because his love of the arts was contagious.
Jim’s laugh was the best — it’s hard to think of him without hearing it in your head. He appreciated funny movies and comedy, and had a gift for finding humor in everyday things, referring to himself as “the comedian’s best friend,” because his laugh was easily won.
He had a way of moving that was athletic and graceful; was raised a hockey player but was a surprisingly beautiful skater. He brought that quality to many sports; was fond of risky moves; enjoyed diving catches and jumping the tennis net backward; and was a proud member of the Buckners wiffle ball team, formed to benefit the Travis Roy Foundation. An enthusiastic and dependable wedding reception dancer, Jim was able to perform seldom-seen moves like the Cossack Dance. Really, he saved more than one wedding from being an awkward dance party. Later in life he became the kinetic lead singer in a band called Cabin Fever.
Jim will be enormously missed by his wife, Karyn, and children, Feora and Bryce, as well as many other friends and family members. Jim died of a rare form of Alzheimer’s disease at age 59. Karyn regrets not making Jim write his own obituary while he still could — it would have been much better. There will be a celebration of life in the summer of 2026.
This article appears in January 7 • 2026.

Comedians best friend for sure… love to you and the fam and I sorely miss the Captain…
Truly one of the most beautiful tributes written about truly one of the most beautiful humans one could ever have known.
I am forever blessed to have known Jim. And I have treasured memories of tennis games (once with wooden rackets), solstice parties, one haunted basement Halloween party, fires in the wood stove, etc. to help me now. I want to rewind the tape and listen to the ‘soundtrack’ one more time.
I’ll see you all this summer. I’ll look forward to hearing stories and remembering our dear Jim.
All our love to you Karyn, Feora and Bryce.
Peace
Mike Clarkson
Karyn, Feona and Bryce/ I am so sorry to hear this news. I didn’t know Jim well but absolutely saw the humor, warmth, and dedication to his family that is described in this obituary. What a terrible loss to you and to this Essex community! He always smiled and acknowledged me and would stop for a quick chat if he could when we bumped into each other. Sending you peace and comfort at the sorrowful time.
I am forever blessed to have known Jim. And I have treasured memories of tennis games (once with wooden rackets), solstice parties, one haunted basement Halloween party, fires in the wood stove, etc. to help me now. I want to rewind the tape and listen to the ‘soundtrack’ one more time.
I’ll see you all this summer. I’ll look forward to hearing stories and remembering our dear Jim.
All our love to you Karyn, Feora and Bryce.
Peace,
Mike Clarkson
That laugh! All those lines from old movies! Never got to ride the luge, but I can picture his glee at the whole experience.
Dearest Karyn, our deepest sympathies to you, Feora and Bryce. An exceptional tribute to an extraordinary human. We are so deeply sorry for your loss. We are here for you. ❤️
Nobody spun more fun and adventure from thin air like Jimmy could. What joie de vivre he possessed, and shared. Start the fun and cue the laugh track.
He was gracious, bright, gifted, generous and kind. We’re all richer for the time we had with Jim. Oh, how I’ll miss him.
What a gorgeously written tribute to Jim and the beautiful life he lived. Sending lots of love to you and the kids, Karyn.
He was a lovely, noble soul. You did good Karyn. I’ll be there this summer. Holding you and the kids in my heart.
Jim was an incredible person. He had so many talents. Not only was he a gifted athlete but a brilliant artist. He had a wonderful mix of that excellence with a joy , kind spirit and deep humility.
He was a dear and true friend. Our family loved him
We were blessed to have had him in our lives.
We will all miss dear Jim
Karyn, Feora and Bryce,
love and deepest sympathies ,
Beth Paquin
What a beautiful tribute. I didn’t know Jim – had never even seen his name until I read this – but with few words you painted a picture of a wonderful person who brought light into the world. You were lucky to have Jim in your lives, and he was clearly lucky to have you. May his memory be a blessing.
Like so many in this world, I shall forever treasure the sound of Jim’s laugh along with so many memories of spending time with such an extraordinary soul. Lucky to have called him a friend.
Sending our forever love to Karyn, Feora and Bryce 💗
This is such a beautiful tribute. We will forever remember Jim for the kind, creative and thoughtful person he was. Holding you all in our hearts ❤️
Jim was even more spectacular than I realized. What a lovely tribute for a truly singular person. I’m glad he was a part of my life, if briefly. Sending lots of love to you and the kids Karyn.
Dearest Jim- we are still laughing at all the old stories from Hampshire and SF days. You were such a bright light in our lives…We will never forget you.
Karyn, sending love and deepest sympathies.
Liska and Francis
A great tribute Karyn❤️ my condolences to all of you❤️ I have no words to make you feel better. know that you are loved.
A great tribute Karyn❤️ my condolences to all of you. Sending my best during this challenging time.
Dear Karyn and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have fond memories of laughter and light with Jim in the early days of Red House Building. We are holding you all in our hearts.
Sending love,
Kara and Chris Quinn
What a beautiful piece of writing about a lovely and special person. I hope you are holding up ok. Sending so much love to you and your kids.
We are so saddened to learn of Jim’s passing Karyn. We are holding you and your family in our hearts. He was so lucky to have such a generous and caring partner in you for so many years. May his memory be a blessing.
A beautiful tribute. Thank you, Jim for making growing up so fun & special. Sending lots of love to Karyn, Fe, and Bryce <3
I randomly stumbled across this obituary and was incredibly moved to read about Jim. My takeaway is that this man lived an extraordinary life, in an everyday type of way.
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote, “Well that we loved, woe had we not.”
Jim loved deeply, and was deeply and well loved.
God bless him and God bless you all.
Karyn, Fi, and Bryce — While tragic to have lost Jim as a spouse, dad and friend, how lucky you and others are to have had him in your lives.
Sending all of you lots of love.
Karyn, what a wonderful tribute to Jim — I so wish I had known him. I’ve been thinking about you these last few weeks, and hope you and the kids are finding solace in friends and memories. I’ll be back in Vermont this summer and hope to catch up with you then. Wishing you peace….
I am so sorry. This is a beautiful tribute to an amazing person.