Mary Jewett Sylver, a devoted mother, grandmother, sister and friend, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, on November 6, 2025, after a long and courageous battle with rheumatoid arthritis and spinal stenosis.
Born in Morrisville, Vt., Mary was known for her incredible strength, determination and loving nature. Despite years of pain and physical challenges, she remained steadfast and resilient, inspiring everyone who knew her with her courage and perseverance. If you knew her well, you knew her kind nature and no doubt felt blessed to have her in your life.
Mary was the proud and loving mother of Tausha Sylver and her husband, Adam Riesner; and Lisa Tareen and her husband, Sven Linkruus. She was also a devoted grandmother to Sam and India Tareen, who brought endless joy and meaning to her life.
She was a role model for her daughters, teaching them the spirit of giving to others through countless volunteer opportunities with the Covenant Community Church and the Jericho-Underhill Food Shelf and by serving meals at the Salvation Army. She had a long career as a medical secretary in many different roles until retirement in 2013. She spent as much time as she could with her daughters, grandchildren and family and was the rock in their lives. In her later years, when her mobility was limited, she enjoyed spending her days doing puzzles and was an avid reader.
Mary is also survived by her sisters, Patricia Thompson and Nancy Becraft and her husband, Bill Becraft, along with their four children and families. She was preceded in death by her parents, Frances and Silas Jewett, and we have no doubt there was a sweet reunion in heaven.
She also shared a special bond with her beloved cats, Buttons and Bows, who were her constant companions and a great source of comfort.
A private service for family and close friends will be held in early summer 2026. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Essex-Jericho-Underhill Food Shelf or the Humane Society of Chittenden County in her honor.
Mary will be remembered for her warm heart, generous spirit and unshakable strength. Stubborn in the best way, she faced life’s challenges with courage and an unwavering love for her family. Her memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who loved her.
“How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.”
A.A. Milne (Winnie-the-Pooh)
I am so sorry to receive this news! The first time I met this beautiful lady I can say my heart fell in love with her kind, loving and beautiful demeanour! I am just sad I will never see her on this earth but look forward to the day when I get to see her in heaven! I am so happy for your Mom as she is now free of pain and enjoying sweet fellowship with everyone who has gone before her!❤️🥰❤️
We’re so sorry to read about Mary’s passing. She was a very special person as you said. Our thoughts are with you and families at this difficult time. Sending hugs.
Mary was a selfless, courageous, lady. Never heard a whine from her. She has left a wonderful legacy in you girls. She was well loved and will surely be missed. Heaven welcomed her with open arms. So grateful to have known her for over 50 years. Love to you all.
Mary’s wonderful recipe for mac and cheese casserole hangs on a cabinet door in our kitchen right next to the stove. It’s a recurring staple in our house and we have always appreciated Mary for sharing it with many of us from Covenant Community Church. We will always say a special prayer for Mary whenever we partake of that recipe. Her kindness and cheerfulness towards our family is also remembered with fondness. God speed Mary, you can finally rest because there are no empty bowls in heaven.
Our deepest condolences to the family on the loss of their loving matriarch. May you find peace in wonderful memories.
Dear Tausha, Lisa and Family,
I am heartbroken to hear of Mary’s passing. I had the opportunity to get to know your mom during the time she volunteered at CVAA Community Meals at The Covenant Church, she was an instrumental part of the success of our programs. Her gentleness provided so much to so many and every Monday people left not only having a nutritious meal but also experiencing the warmth and kindness your mom provided.
Tausha Lisa, India and Sam you were the absolute loves of her life…she was so proud of all of you. May the beautiful memories give you comfort during this very sad time.
Holding you all close to my heart with sympathy and love,
Pat (Pike) Long
Retired CVAA