Michael Collins Jacobs Jr., USAF Lt. Col., Ret., passed peacefully on March 19, 2026, in Alexandria, Va., surrounded by family. Born on February 23, 1945, in New York City to Michael Collins Jacobs and Janet (Gallagher), Mike grew up with a strong sense of duty, humor and heart — qualities that guided him throughout his life.
He attended Rice High School and Saint Michael’s College, where his character and wit were already evident. Mike served his country with distinction in the United States Air Force, earning commendations during assignments in France, India and Thailand. Yet he believed his greatest impact came not from rank or recognition but from the kindness and care he showed others.
At the center of his life was his beloved wife, Carole (Farnham), with whom he shared 60 devoted years of marriage, beginning in a memorable Vermont snowstorm. Together they raised daughters Wendy and Julie, whose families brought him immense pride and joy.
In retirement, Mike continued to serve others as a steady friend and mentor within his community. He is remembered as a man of warmth, humility, humor and enduring love. Put in a good word for us up there, Mike — until we all meet again one day.
Mike is survived by his wife, Carole (Farnham) Jacobs; daughters, Wendy Jacobs (Arthur Kleven) and Julie Wolfe (Jack); granddaughters, Chelsea, Mia (Jacobs-Kleven) and Caroline (Wolfe); and by his Jacobs siblings, Connie (St. Albans), Mary (Toronto), Genevieve (Burlington) and Tony (Denver).
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